i really need help!! please! soo confused..?

i really need help!! please! soo confused..?
theres this guy that ive been talkin to for about 3 weeks now. im 15 and hes 17 and we go to different schools in different counties and the schools are about 45 minutes away from each other but im fixin to move to where he lives. the first week we started talkin, he got my number from a friend of his that i used to kinda talk to. me and this guy, well call him joe, went to middle school together but havent seen each other since then. well me and joe started talkin and that first week we talked all the time. i would wake up to txts sayin stuff like good mornin beautiful and other really sweet stuff like that. one of the first things he said to me was 'we should go out' and i told him that i wanted to get to know him better first. so then that weekend, we hung out for the first time. my dad met his parents and then me and joe went huntin and then to a party. at that party, he stayed with me the whole time either holdin my hand or his arm around me or somethin. and we sat by the fire and i stood in him arms out by his truck. and around some of his friends hoe would say stuff like 'wheres my girlfriend' or 'oh theres my gf' and stuff. it was just really great. so then he took me home and said hed txt me and good night and stuff. well the next week i hardly heard from him. an occasional txt here or there but wayy less than the week before. so that friday night i went to his football game, he had asked me too last weekend, and like right after he txted me and asked if i was there. i said yea and then the next day he txted me and wanted to hang out, so we did. he came and picked me up and we went and parked somewhere and just chilled. yea we made out too. while we were out there, he told me that he liked me too much to think...something i dont remember. anyways, then we went to mcdonalds and he took me home and again said hed txt me. well later that night i txted him and asked him if he really did like me and he was like 'yes i do' and i was like 'oh cool yea for what it means i like you too = ]'. then this past week i think i heard from him once. i went to his game again this past fri night and he saw me and i caught him starin, but i didnt look back cuz i was talkin to a girl friend. but this weekend we didnt hang out at all..i havent even heard from him. now i dont know what to do because i really like him. i cant decide if i should txt him and just ask him what callin me his girlfriend meant and if the offer to go out still stands and that i really like him, or if i should not txt him and get him to txt me. because i have had that work in multiple cases before. i would talk to a guy like alot and then we would like stop talkin and then i would hear from them and they would almost always like me after that. once guy even said he would date me but that i lived too far away (like and hour and a half). but i just dont know what to about joe. txt him or not? any advice would be awesome! thanks yall
Singles & Dating - 4 Answers - 2008-11-09 15:19:47

Best Answer
Hmmm, I think that you should wait until he texts you. If he doesn't text you back in two days then that's when I think that you should take action. I know it's gonna be hard to wait but you have to be patient and try to take your mind off the situation. Try hanging out with your friends, go to the movies or do something to keep yourself busy and watch hopefully when you least expect it you'll receive a text from Joe. I hope things work out (:

All Answers
Answer 1
just txt him and c wat happens
2008-11-09 15:26:26

Answer 2
Yea. I'd just ask him. more than likely it sounds like he wants to go out with you, especially if he called you his girlfriend. Why wait for him to make the first move, guys like it when girls make the first move sometimes too. goodluck.
2008-11-09 15:26:51

Answer 3
i know you want to text him. just do that. its better for you to know the answer rather than wondering the reason. its not like you're the one who confessed the feelings first. I've there b4 and it will not be embarrassing at all coz he is the one that say 'i like you'. but you need to know when he said that he like you, know for sure he likes you as a fren or more than that. Analise the situation b4 you act. good luck OK..
2008-11-09 15:35:46

Answer 4
Hmmm, I think that you should wait until he texts you. If he doesn't text you back in two days then that's when I think that you should take action. I know it's gonna be hard to wait but you have to be patient and try to take your mind off the situation. Try hanging out with your friends, go to the movies or do something to keep yourself busy and watch hopefully when you least expect it you'll receive a text from Joe. I hope things work out (:
2008-11-09 15:36:54